Post by riley on Apr 4, 2005 19:37:37 GMT -5
These couple of recent lost lives that are receiving so much media attention have made me ponder more about our human priorities than the significance of the actual individuals.
I got thinking about when rock stars die and people show up in droves. I'm probably as big a pop culture junkie as anyone, but I can't think of one single artist who's grave site, fan love in or funeral I would show up at with the announcement of their passing, untimely or otherwise.
If Robert Deniro died I wouldn't cry or show up to mourn among other fans. If Geddy Lee passes along, I'll reflect on the art he created, feel grateful he did and get on with my day. I wouldn't show up at Michael Jackson's trial to show support even if I didn't think he was a fucking kook show, and I wouldn't go check out the Pope's corpse ... well pretty much for any reason because it's ... well a dead old guy ... like my grandfather, but with a better hat.
They're humans I don't know. I respect life in all forms, but, but all I really know is their contribution and slices of a perceived character, often based on A & E Biography re-runs. I can be moved negatively or positively by their contribution to the life I know, but beyond that what do I know?
To make a big deal out of someone, alive or dead, based on what they've contributed is fine. But where and how does it cross over into a sense of personal loss of the individual? The contribution will never be gone. It remains. So where is the loss? Unless the Pope is like your brother or son I suppose.
You lose parents, family, pets and people you know. You don't lose the famous people who make impressions on you regardless of their venue, becasue they're not really yours to lose.
I got thinking about when rock stars die and people show up in droves. I'm probably as big a pop culture junkie as anyone, but I can't think of one single artist who's grave site, fan love in or funeral I would show up at with the announcement of their passing, untimely or otherwise.
If Robert Deniro died I wouldn't cry or show up to mourn among other fans. If Geddy Lee passes along, I'll reflect on the art he created, feel grateful he did and get on with my day. I wouldn't show up at Michael Jackson's trial to show support even if I didn't think he was a fucking kook show, and I wouldn't go check out the Pope's corpse ... well pretty much for any reason because it's ... well a dead old guy ... like my grandfather, but with a better hat.
They're humans I don't know. I respect life in all forms, but, but all I really know is their contribution and slices of a perceived character, often based on A & E Biography re-runs. I can be moved negatively or positively by their contribution to the life I know, but beyond that what do I know?
To make a big deal out of someone, alive or dead, based on what they've contributed is fine. But where and how does it cross over into a sense of personal loss of the individual? The contribution will never be gone. It remains. So where is the loss? Unless the Pope is like your brother or son I suppose.
You lose parents, family, pets and people you know. You don't lose the famous people who make impressions on you regardless of their venue, becasue they're not really yours to lose.